It is actually one of the most common fears in adults but not in children. Let’s start doing something about it. What is fear of failure? All fears are simply an emotion that is unpleasant and from which we want to run and hide as fast as we can. We do our best to avoid it or to resist it as …
I never though I would be doing the Camino. I hate walking. I like to sleep long hours in the morning. I hate noisy bedrooms and crowded places. Strangely, all those aversions suddenly fell away, as I started to prepare for the 800 km long Camino to Santiago de Compostela via Camino Frances. I could …
Most people think they love their partner, but in reality, that is not the case. Here are my thoughts about the true meaning of love in a relationship. We have all been conditioned to think of love as dependence. We think of it as something outside of us that can be gained or lost and …
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What is happiness? Majority of the world doesn’t have a clue. I am talking about real and lasting happiness, not just experiencing pleasures that we derive from other people, places and things. There is a difference between pleasure and deeper happiness. When we achieve or get something pleasurable in life, we will soon notice that the nice …
Sometimes we feel like we don’t matter. The following transcript of one conversation might help you with that experience. EGO: I want to feel like I matter. I want to be important, to be someone. TRUTH: You matter. You are important simply because you exist. EGO: That is not enough. TRUTH: It is all that …
Is it possible to have health with happiness? I would like to share with you a real life story, from someone who found the answer to this question on his own. Once upon a time, not so long ago, there lived a man in the USA. He was born in Elizabeth, New Jersey, in 1909. …
Almost every one of us has sometimes felt disappointed in life, other people, or just ourselves. It is important that we know how to deal with life disappointments in an effective and loving way. What is actually this feeling of disappointment all about? My experience with disappointment From my own experience, I feel this feeling usually when I: …
Our minds are very conditional. We choose to be happy only if certain things (that we decided are good) happened. We don’t accept our life the way it is. In other words, as soon as something that we don’t like happens, we are no longer happy. Examples of non-acceptance can be found in huge numbers …
We live in a society where our happiness is hugely conditioned. Being in a relationship is considered by many as a formal prerequisite for happiness. Theory is that it is absolutely impossible to be happy and single. Is that really the case? Is it really possible to be happy and single? The answer to this …
When I was a young boy, change was something to be feared. Nobody around me liked change, it was something that you need to be on the lookout for. And you had to protect yourself from it. Change was dangerous. Funny thing is, in the following years I experienced so much change in my life …
