Almost every one of us has sometimes felt disappointed in life, other people, or just ourselves. It is important that we know how to deal with life disappointments in an effective and loving way. What is actually this feeling of disappointment all about? My experience with disappointment From my own experience, I feel this feeling usually when I: …
Our minds are very conditional. We choose to be happy only if certain things (that we decided are good) happened. We don’t accept our life the way it is. In other words, as soon as something that we don’t like happens, we are no longer happy. Examples of non-acceptance can be found in huge numbers …
We live in a society where our happiness is hugely conditioned. Being in a relationship is considered by many as a formal prerequisite for happiness. Theory is that it is absolutely impossible to be happy and single. Is that really the case? Is it really possible to be happy and single? The answer to this …
When I was a young boy, change was something to be feared. Nobody around me liked change, it was something that you need to be on the lookout for. And you had to protect yourself from it. Change was dangerous. Funny thing is, in the following years I experienced so much change in my life …
From a young age, we are brainwashed into only using our minds (in a strictly analytic way) to manage and lead in our daily lives. Nobody taught us how to lead with our hearts. But that approach no longer works. Just take a look at our current environment (be it political or economic) and you …
Perhaps this title is coming off too strong. The truth is, Rudi doesn’t really hate religion if it makes people more loving… Following is a letter written by my Twitter friend Rudi, who had a Near Death Experience (NDE) and is sharing his thoughts in a letter to a young man who wanted to know …
We live in a fast-paced world. New ways of communication and personal interaction can hurt our natural ability to interact and listen to ourselves and others with our hearts instead of only our ears and minds. Listening with your heart simply means giving to something your full attention (time and space), allowing the message to …
Waiting is something we all need to address at one point of our lives, mostly because we get tired of the pain and suffering it causes. When we wait for something it’s like time slows down. It takes forever to receive the thing, people or experience that we are waiting for. Let’s look at how …
Perhaps you don’t know this, but we are programmed with a set of limiting beliefs about money from a very early age. Were you ever told as a kid that “Money is the root of all evil”, or “Money doesn’t grow on trees”, or that “There is never enough money to go around”? If so, …
I was not a firm believer in gratitude and most of my life I never really bothered to explore the topic of being grateful for what I have. But as with all things in life, every learning point comes to you when you are most receptive towards it and when you are most likely to …
